There are many factors  that affect battery life, but the rule of thumb is after 3 years they have lost most of their ability to store charge.

And no, car batteries can not be used. The type of batteries used in UPS and for solar power is the type know as 'deep cycle' which can handle the frequent charging and discharging. |Normal car batteries are not designed for that.

One of the leading manufactures of deep cycle batteries is a Korean company known as Gaston,. So whenever you are looking for solar or inverter batteries, always check for their batteries. They have batteries ranging from a few AH to over 200 AH and abovr. Most telcoms use them as backup system for the BTS equipment,.