I seem to remember a flame-fest a while back among a number of IT societies on the KICTanet mailing-list.
I suspect the silence you're hearing right now is because any response to your questions from the societies might re-ignite a slug-fest.
A question: why don't you fly solo for a while? Get some usable code up and running, create a prototype and you may get a number of coders very willing to join you.
Think of it this way: what would your chances of funding be if you approached potential investors without a prototype? Asking people to join an initiative is just like asking for an investment, that's what this list has taught me. Without any code, I am highly unlikely to get anyone to join me on anything. Having code doesn't guarantee anything, but at least it's a good starting point.
My take-home message? Fly solo for a while with an aim of creating a prototype to attract like minds.
Saidi